Living with an ADHD kid.

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Cruising for some common sensitivity

So Tom Cruise has been dropped from Paramount due to his off the wall behavior in his personal life. No suprises there then.
I lost all respect for Tom Cruise the day he appeared on Parkinson chat show a couple of years ago, and criticised parents who medicate their kids for behavior problems. He more recently had a go at poor Brooke Shields for taking medication to treat her post natal depression.
Firstly what does he know, does he live with ADHD. Well I suppose that point is open for discussion colleagues believe he displays many signs, although I think its plain ignorance. Its so easy to be critical, much easier to pass the buck. Those of us who make the decision to medicate, don't do this lightly, I know I didn't and still beat myself up about it. Yet the evidence is there before us. This morning I waved off a group of our teenagers on their way to Drayton Manor Park, for a residential trip. Without medication many of those teenagers with ADHD would be unable to cope with the whole process. It accesses a world to them that otherwise is alien. I truly believe my own son would have seriously damaged himself in the early days with his pure impulsiveness. We as parents don't do this for an easy life. we do it to give our kids a chance to be the way society expect them to be.
Of course Tom Cruise is influenced by Scientology. My only encounter with a Scientologist once was enough. His beliefs left no space to hear our point of view. He openly told me that medicating our children was wrong and that we needed to change our parenting. I invitied him to a coffee morning and suggested that we leave medication off for him so he could see the children at their most energetic. He never showed up!.

5 Comments:

Blogger bibliobibuli said...

nice post! i just wish your scientologist had shown up, what fun!

2:57 AM

 
Blogger therese said...

I'm getting really bitchy on my blog arent I, wonder where I get that from.

Love Tess

7:18 AM

 
Blogger bibliobibuli said...

haha! you do bitchy very well. (bettr than me) keep it up.

actually if you wrote this as an article and sent it out into the world, i'm sure you could get it published.

10:15 AM

 
Blogger Jamie said...

Hi Therese,
I thought i'd drop you a line as i have just started an ADD blog on blogger. it is called createstructure and is about adult ADD. i like the idea of trying to foster community amongst diagnosed and non diagnosed ADD adults as well as children. my first (and still only) meeting with other ADD persons in a support environment (at the harrow group through whom i discovered your blog) was so useful to me that i have been meaning to do something like this ever since. anyhow, 4 or 5 months later, i have. and that's not too bad for me. .

8:41 AM

 
Blogger julie said...

In another moment of desperation for help and support, as i'm sure many parents of children with ADHD do, I came across your blog. We beat ourselves up everyday wondering what the long term affects of medication on our son might be but without it he too would find functioning in daily life near impossible. Thanks, I needed the reassurance today. Julie

4:59 AM

 

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